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♥ Friday, April 07, 2006
11:19 PM

Rebuking - reprimand, scolding, telling off.

2 Types of Rebuking that Happened:

1) Rebuking the trees and birds.

Just called my bf, he is cleaning up the car. Dont understand what happened recently - wherever he parked his car, the birds will drop their shit on his red car. And it's horrible sight of almost the whole car getting stained everywhere. Really, dont understand why. haha.. the birds loved his vehicle but WHY only his vehicle? It can be a whole row of vehicles and none got it except his car. Nowadays, after parking his car in the open area, the first thing he does is to point his finger at the trees and birds to rebuke not to drop anything on his vehicle. Yes, amazingly, it HELPS! haha.. If you see a man rebuke trees and birds and standing near a red vehicle, possiblility it's him.. haha.. But he has learnt one thing - one has to be responsible for his own possession; you have to learnt how to clear your own shit. He tried paying others to wash his car but same situation came back. When he does his own cleaning - nothing will happened or less of it will happen.

2) Rebuking a friend

This is a good friend that we have been trying to reach out to. Always been gentle and nice, learning to give in, ving patience and kindness. But I am left with no choice but to rebuke him. Can you image that how calm it was to rebuke in front of a person? But once he stepped away, my tears flown and my heart got stirred. I turned to my bf and asked him whether I am done the wrong way. Can you image that what was spoken may just ruined everything and our relationship? But if kindness we shown is some thing he's been rejecting, we just have to play badies with more hurtful words and never pleasing to the ears. Out of sudden, it led me to understand that sometimes, we have done a lot of things that hurted Him. Never did he shut his door and stop his blessings but there is just a situation whereby He has no alternative but to shut his door so that we may learn how to scream or shout for help..