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♥ Tuesday, December 05, 2006
11:11 PM

This evening, we spent our evening for a 2 hours lesson with our marrying pastor.

Covered a few topics on 'to-do' list, how to register for marriage, marriage in christian terms compared to a normal civil marriage. Enforcing that marriage is about 2 different person from different background and upbringing coming together as 1.

Main topic is the outcome of our TJTA done months ago. Assessment on personality for couples. Seems quite accurate!

Our similar traits - temperament, teachable, rest are similar.

For me - indifferent. Our pastor felt it is partly because my parents' broken marriage. More attention needed.

For him - submissive. Falling under the category of 'Qin-Chia' which stirred a lot of trouble for decisions making. Our pastor advice - to open up and make a firm decision whenever there is a choice to make and stick to it instead of questioning.

Our extreme - Organisation skills. This is the part whereby pastor always emphasized. Using our strength in covering other's weaknesses. I have to learn to help him. In turn, he has to help himself by enforcing more discipline.

Next and last lesson, we will be talking about our wedding preps. As well as topics on our upbringing and differences.