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♥ Tuesday, June 19, 2007
9:12 PM

Just a joke to start with.. Before I start blogging. Dar's friend IM me asking moi abt another friend of ours..

Friend: hey how did jarimaya last jobs end up in commodity trading?
Me:???
Me:nope. dont know who is he
Friend: Brother in wedding, the pump man
Me: Jeremiah?
Friend: ya...dun know how to spell
Me: I tot tha's a Malay name

Now, Jeremiah = Jarimaya = Jia Le Mia Ya


Ok, back to what I wanna write for the day.

Recently, I felt that Dar has changed a fair bit in character since married. Overall, still a Mr Nice Guy but at times, temper is a bit fiery..

He sounds a bit rude when he talked to me. I complained that he is not as gentle, well he tried to tone down. At times, he said that he is in bad mood (Never heard he saying that our courtship days).

Another day, I was complaining that I havent received flowers since we tied the knot. He plucked one from an opening ceremony flower stand within that week (so cheapo!).

Last night, he had a plot. While brushing my teeth outside the toilet (Sis-IL) was inside bathing.. He was saying that why I forbid him to take supper (My concern is he's gaining and it's bad for health). Anyway, was speaking LOUDLY and defending himself and saying I am not only forbidding him but also about his family. I was slightly loudly (forgetting that Sis IL was near), saying that it's up to individual but I care about him, his health, reasoning etc.. and not only moi DONT have the habit, our friends too. He went blah blah.. till I heard the shower. Back in the room, he smiled and I was boiling. He DID IT on PURPOSE!!! He just used me to convey the message, well, in short that was not a good idea. (See, there is always the ugly side of man, no one is an ANGEL always!):O

Days ago, he called a house agent to ask about selling price. When the agent told him it was abt 30-50k cash + house value.. He went "Siao ah, who want to be the carrot to buy the house".

Is his change good? At times, I was a bit upset. Like showing his true colours though I know him for donkey years. Brighter side, he is learning and undertraining to be MAN, more demanding and others will not take advantage of this.

Some updates
No nightmare last night, had a good rest. But I hit Dar's back when he refused to press the alarm clock this morning. When he is wide awake, he said "Is it in my dream that you hit my back or you hit me for real?" Well, I laughed.