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♥ Friday, November 23, 2007
1:06 PM

Some times when things happened too soon, we are just in left in shocked.

Hubby cried whenever he thinks of Ah_Ma and I will recall with him of the visits, how even when in the initial of our days of courtship I was introduced to her as Hub's sister's galfriend and how happy she is for us to visit her. Also one of her happiest moment, on our wedding, during the tea ceremony - to acknowledge me as part of the family with warm welcome.

She always teaches me how to love another, no matter how poor or how things may be. Well, I did blow my top recently cause when I was in Korea, Hubby changed his car system and it was not just a few thousands. I am upset because he spent his money like water without hesitation, without thinking that large amount and most of all, not involving me in the decision making.

So, we talked about with his cousin and sisters during late night. I think they condemned him and kinda side with me. With much guilt in his heart. I understood it is also the Ups and Downs of marriage, now, instead, I learnt how to defend him. Hubby is just like a small kid at heart and me, at times, taking the role of a mummy cum wife cum friend.

Tonight, another night of sharing with all.

Some sadness and strengthen/bonding of this point of time.